Growing up

Growing up, there was an absence of queer spaces and visible lesbian role models, especially those who looked like me. This lack of representation and community meant that although I sensed my truth from my early teens, my journey to being ‘out’ was cautious and slow. It was not until university, that I began to come out to close friends and family.

A decade later, I am growing to be confident and proud of my identity, but it has been a journey to get here. Finding spaces where being LGBTQ+ is not just accepted but celebrated has been crucial to my journey.

Visibility in work

Witnessing queer leadership at work is motivating and I aspire to be a visible leader as I progress in my career. My involvement in LGBTQ+ networks within in the Civil Service has provided a safe space for me to bring my authentic self to work. I serve as the Edinburgh Rep for the network at the Department for Business and Trade. In this role I offer support for colleagues based in Scotland and I am a visible advocate for LGBTQ+ individuals.

Visibility outside of work

Outside of work, I am an active member of Glasgow Frontrunners, an LGBTQ+ running group. I was never sporty growing up, but this club has provided me with an inclusive and encouraging environment to build my confidence and running ability. Most importantly, I have gained an amazing group of friends and a sense of community through joining this club. I recently became a jog leader for the club. Taking on this leadership role has not only boosted my confidence but also allowed me to support fellow club members.

In Glasgow, I have easy access to several queer spaces that foster connection and representation. One of my favourites is bookstore called Category Is Books which not only sells queer literature but also hosts inclusive activities like yoga.

I am grateful for the existence and continued growth of queer spaces and communities that make it easier for LGBTQ+ people to live authentically and foster connections with other queer people and allies. Having a community has been and will continue to be so important to me.

Reflections

As we celebrate Lesbian Visibility Week, it is important to acknowledge the strides we have made whilst continuing to work towards more inclusion.

Despite the progress made, challenges remain in achieving full acceptance and equality for all LGBTQ+ identities. My hope is that future generations have easier access to accepting spaces that embrace all identities.

Reflecting on my personal journey, I am grateful for the communities I have built and the impact they have had on my pride and confidence. The networks and spaces that I belong to offer a sense of safety and empowerment to embrace my identity fully.

My journey - from tentative steps to come out to proudly living my truth a decade later exemplifies the power of community, representation, and the need for spaces where we feel a sense of belonging.

Laura Wood
GFR Member